I would like to go to the Grotta Palazzese in Puglia, Italy.
“Tucked inside a limestone cavern, this summer-only spot (open May through October) has hosted elegant dinners since the 18th century, when Italian nobility held banquets in the space.” - Conde` Nast Traveler
My stand on cyber bullying: yes, I believe it does exist, but it doesn’t affect me. If I ever see anything bad on my phone, social media, or whatever that isn’t face-to-face interaction, it doesn’t quite matter to me. I think the reason why I don’t value it higher because it seems less hostile. Just in my opinion. If I see anything bad on the internet or text or WHATEVER, I just close the tab and do something more productive that to mope around and be sad/miserable about something someone thinks about me. Whatever- you can’t win them all. I don’t think I even have the hearts of many but it doesn’t quite matter to me because all that matters is if I’m happy or not and more often than not, even with the mean/rude comments, I am still happy. More reflective of my actions, but still happy. I was never teased/bullied to a large extent. I’ve had my fair share (and I think I still do?) but there is so much good in my life that it’s really hard to focus on the bad things since they’re minuscule. I can understand how others are affect by it whether theirs is larger scaled or smaller scale. People have different circumstances. Nothing can be compared because it’s never going to be the same situation. So, in large part, it is all up to the person’s mentality. How they react to the bullying. I’m not a big fan in appeasing to others or being submissive. I like to have my stand. I want people to respect me. I don’t like seeing negative things in my life, so I usually just block it out, too. This is all just me. I know many people may argue that I am wrong and I really respect your own opinion, but this is all just how I think. So, I can’t just tell people that are being cyber-bullied to just ignore it and do something else (I would imply it, though) because I know it’s easier said than done but I mean, the person should try. Surround yourself with good people that make you happy and do happy things with you. Always do whatever makes you happy. Yep. That’s it. I hope my words help some of you see the brighter side of things. I hope you all find happiness. Take care!
It’s exciting when you find parts of yourself in someone else.
To anyone who ever put
doubt on my lap,
in my mind,
in my hands
in my eyes,
I want you
that you did not
succeed in trying
to ruin me.
I REALLY dislike being around people that cannot handle pressure. People who get flustered at the slightest stimuli that is out of their comfort zone. I need them to calm down and do one thing at a time if they cannot handle doing multiple things at once. I need them to ask for help if they need it. What irks me the most is when people complain about something that was entirely their responsibility. I especially dislike it when they complain about not having help. I am very helpful. I will help if you ask. I will help if I feel I’m needed. Common sense. But people who act more hostile because they are under pressure are people I don’t like to be around. Bad vibes. I can’t stand it when people yell at me either because I never first to raise my voice if I’m ever frustrated but I will try to contain my urge to raise my voice too if you raise yours. There is absolutely no use in yelling. All it does is cause a scene. I actually really dislike having the wrong attention on me. I’m human- I like attention— and to a certain amount, but too much of a good thing is bad so that’s why I never like to have too much attention. Yelling attracts the wrong attention. There’s never a need to cuss either. Its inarticulate and rather low to stoop down to that level. Is there no other words in your vocabulary to use instead of slang? Disgusts me. I admit to my fair share of cussing but I’ve never used it in an argument. No need. It just adds fuel to a fire. One thing I absolutelty can NOT tolerate is when people throw or hit things. Why would you ruin YOUR OWN items that you worked hard to pay for? Why would you hit someone you claim to love so much? I can understand what goes through the minds of people that hit/throw objects when they are flustered but cmon…. Its so stupid. The logic of it. I mean a lot of it has to do with how you were raised but its a personal choice, too. You can choose to follow bad or learn vicariously not to do that so that it doesn’t cause a pattern in future generations. Just food for thought. People who are flustered and do things that are out of character/place are people who I just don’t like to be around. The facade I present is wholly me. Of course my actions are respectable because I do try to save face but more than that is that I don’t want to let my emotions make me into a different person. This is all just my opinion. Food for thought for some. A bunch of garbage for others. Whatever way you take my posts I don’t care. I do this for myself to keep myself intact. Track progress. Things like that. People always think I’m hard to please but I actually like almost everything. I just don’t like anything that causes pain/discomfort that doesn’t result in personal growth. Unnecessary and/or avoidable bad situations to get myself into. I am like how I am partly because I was raised to be more respectful of others but also because of my own person choices. My parents aren’t perfect. They didn’t always do everything that was exactly right. Thing is, I learned through watching them of things to do and things NOT to do. People are so complex in how they act and speak. Shows a lot about them. That’s why although there’s a lot of bad and hate in the world, I believe that there are many good people. People that use their common sense and pursue/continue actions with good intentions. I want to meet everyone. Learn their story. Learn from the good and the bad. Life is good if you let it be. Everyday is a blessing (and I dont mean that in a religious sense or anything). Everyday is a new start. Do more things you like. Be happy. Alrighty, I’m done here. Take care!
the “text me when you get home so i know you’re safe” kind of people are the kind of people i wanna be around
Yes, terrible things happen, but sometimes those terrible things- they save you.
Joey Bada$$ & Pro Era were awesome tonight
Flylo, UA & Flatbrush Zombies, Yung Lean & Sad Boys, De La Soul, Common,AND TOKiMOSTA coming soon
So many comcerts. My oh my whatever will I do. I want to go to every single one of em :-(